For My Sunday Song #435, we are going to visit a song that I only know because of my daughter. It is Nessa Barrett’s brutal song “I Hope UR Miserable Until UR Dead” off her debut E.P., ‘Pretty Poison’ released back in 2021. The song was written by a whole slew of people including Nessa herself. It also has Evan Blair, Madi Yanofsky, Samuel Mark Catalano and Tim Randolph. The song only went to #88 on the Billboard Top 100 chart, but it is #1 in my book.
Some toxic relationships end and you can either take the high road and move on and not look back or you can take the low road and be petty and bitter. This song is the latter. She is completely brutal in this song wishing this guy was miserable until he dies…that is harsh. It talks about how toxic he was and she wants to call him out for all the bad crap he’s done, but won’t. She knows that his true colors will show and his friends will end up hating him since he really is a little shit. She does let him go and moves on with her life, but still wants him to be miserable. Toxicity should not be tolerated and you should always get out of those type of relationships.
Nessa’s vocals are really awesome. This sweet sounding angel with the mouth of a sailor really shines throughout the song. I think her vocals are what make the song. What I like about the song is the rock sound with the heavy guitar riffs during the hard parts and soft acoustic guitars during the slower parts. And the drum beats are heart poundingly brutal and make you feel the anger that really lies behind those lyrics. A dark, brooding song that has such great pop sensibilities with its massive hooks and melody. A killer track.
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Miley Cyrus – Something Beautiful – (Columbia Records)
Garbage – Let All That We Imagine Be The Light – (BMG Rights Mgmt)
The Dead Daisies – Lookin’ For Trouble – (Fame – Malaco)
Anderson East – Worthy – (Rounder Records)
Wolves At The Gate – Wasteland – (Solid State Records)
Aesop Rock – Black Hole Superette – (Rhymesayers Entertainment)
Grouplove – Rock N’ Roll You Won’t Save Me (Live) – (Glassnote Music LLC)
Gloria Estefan – Raices – (Sony U.S. Latin)



Don Felder – The Vault: Fifty Years of Music – (Frontiers Records)
Ronnie Romero – Live at Rock Imperium Festival – (Frontiers Records)
Taj Mahal / Keb’ Mo’ – Room on the Porch – (Concord Records)
Big Daddy Weave – Let It Begin – (Curb Records)
Green Day – Saviors (edition de luxe) – (Reprise Records)
Joe Jonas – Music For People Who Believe in Love – (Republic Records / UMG)
Sports Team – Boys These Days – (Bright Antenna Entertainment / AWAL)
Cardinal Black – Midnight at The Valencia – (Jump In Records / Thirty Tigers)
Stereolab – Instant Holograms on Metal Film – (Duophonic)
The SteelDrivers – Outrun – (Sun Records)
Sparks – MAD! – (Transgressive)
Firefall – Friends And Family 2 – (Firetours Inc / Sunset Blvd Records)
Feversea – Man Under Erasure – (Dark Essence Records)
Witchcraft – Idag – (Heavy Psych Sounds)
OnSlaught – Origins of Aggression – (Reigning Phoenix Music)
Crystal Spiders – Metanoia – (Ripple Music)
Unmerciful – Devouring Darkness – (Willowtip)
Unantastbar – Fur Immer Wir – (Napalm Records)
Age of Apocalypse – In Oblivion – (Closed Casket Activities)
St. Johns Wood Affair – 2 – (Think Like A Key Music / Keith Smart)
Cindytalk – Camouflage Heart – (Dais Records)
Charmer – Downpour – (Counter Intuitive Records)
Skunk Anansie – The Painful Truth – (Boogooyamma / Frontiers Records)
These New Puritans – Crooked Wing – (Domino Recordings)
House of Protection – Outrun You All – (Red Bull Records)
Amble – Reverie – (Warner Records / Amble Music Ltd)

Morgan Wallen – I’m The Problem – (Big Loud Records / Mercury Records)
Giant – Stand And Deliver – (Frontiers Records)
Bury Tomorrow – Will You Haunt Me, With That Same Patience – (Music For Nations)
Sleep Theory – Afterglow – (Epitaph)
Kadavar – I Just Want to Be A Sound – (Clouds Hill)
Confessions of a Traitor – This Pain Will Serve You – (Facedown Records)
Larcenia Roe – Extraction – (Unique Leader Records)
Kaleo – Mixed Emotions – (Atlantic Records)
INXS – Listen Like Thieves (40th Anniversary Edition) – (Atlantic Records)
Maren Morris – Dreamsicle – (Columbia Records / Sony Music)
Behemoth – The Shit Ov God – (Nuclear Blast)
Sleep Token – Even in Arcadia – (RCA Records)
Candlemass – Black Star E.P. – (Napalm Records)
Arcade Fire – Pink Elephant – (Arcade Fire Music)
Eric Church – Evangeline vs. The Machine – (EMI Records / BigEC Records)
Pink Floyd – Pink Floyd at Pompeii MCMLXXII – (Legacy Recordings)
Suzanne Vega – Flying With Angels – (Cooking Vinyl Records)
Josh Groban – Gems – (Reprise Records)
Pet Shop Boys – Dreamland: The Greatest Hits Live – (Parlophone Records / x2 Recordings)
The Flower Kings – Love – (InsideOutMusic)
Cat Stevens – Saturnight (Cat Stevens Live in Tokyo) – (Universal Music / Cat-O-Log Records / UMG)
Maddie And Tae – Love & Light – (Mercury Nashville / UMG Recordings)
Billy Idol – Dream Into It – (Dark Horse Records)
H.E.A.T. – Welcome to the Future – (earMusic)
Ghost – Skeleta – (Loma Vista Recordings)
Harem Scarem – Chasing Euphoria – (Frontiers Records)
Whitesnake – Access All Areas: Live – (Rhino Records)
Will Hoge – Blackbird On A Lonely Wire (Will’s Version) – (Will Hoge)
Frehley’s Comet – Live +1: The Expanded Version) – (Friday Music Two)
Samantha Fish – Paper Doll – (Rounder Records / Concord)
Willie Nelson – Oh What A Beautiful World – (Legacy Recordings)
Sting – Sting 3.0 Live – (A&M Records)
The Sex Pistols – Live in the U.S.A. 1978 – (Ume)
Stereophonics – Make ‘Em Laugh, Make ‘Em Cry, Make ‘Em Wait – (EMI / Universal Music)
Yngwie Malmsteen – Tokyo Live – (Music Theories)
Simple Minds – Live in the City of Diamonds – (BMG Rights Mgmt)
Coco Jones – Why Not More? – (High Standardz / Def Jam / UMG)
Smokey Robinson – What The World Needs Now – (Gaither Music Group)
Jeff Goldblum & The Mildred Snitzer Orchestra – Still Blooming – (Decca Records / Universal Music)
Robin Trower – Come And Find Me – (Artone Label Group / Provogue)
Machine Head – Unatoned – (Nuclear Blast X Imperium Recordings)
Wednesday 13 – Mid Death Crisis – (Napalm Records)
Art Nation – The Ascendance – (Frontiers Records)
Russ Ballard – Songs From the Warehouse/The Hits Rewired – (Frontiers Records)
James And The Cold Gun – Face In The Mirror – (Loosegroove Records)
Eyes – Spinner – (Prosthetic Records)
Sunflower Bean – Mortal Primetime – (Lucky Number)
Eluveitie – Anv – (Nuclear Blast)
Landmvrks – The Darkest Place I’ve Ever Been – (Arising Empire)
Conan – Violence Dimension – (Heavy Psych Sounds)
Caliban – Back From Hell – (Century Media Records)
Coffin Feeder – Big Trouble – (Coffin Feeder)
Ancient Bards – Artifex – (Limb Music Publishing)
Game Over – Face The End – (Scarlet Records)
Cancer – Inverted World – (Peaceville)
Trick or Treat – Ghosted – (Scarlet Records)
Employed to Serve – Fallen Star – (Spinefarm Music Group)
Cosmic Cathedral – Deep Water – (InsideOutMusic)
Oak – The Third Sleep – (Karisma Records)
Rodeo Boys – Junior – (Don Giovanni Records)
Jawdropped – Just Fantasy E.P. – (Fire Talk)
Cloth – Pink Silence – (Rock Action Records)
Viagra Boys – Viagr Aboys – (Shrimptech Enterprises)
Fib – Heavy Lifting – (Julia’s War Recordings)
d4vd – Withered – (Darkroom / Interscope Records)
William Tyler – Time Indefinite – (Psychic Hotline)
Samia – Bloodless – (Grand Jury Music)
WesGhost – Am I Dreaming? – (Columbia Records / Sony Music)
Uwade – Florilegium – (Ehiose Records / Thirty Tigers)
Hannah Rose Platt – Fragile Creatures – (Xtra Mile Recordings)
Stephen Stanley – Trustfall – (Sparrow Records / Capitol CMG)
Tucker Wetmore – What Not To – (Back Blocks Music)